Ya…let me tell you about my recent experience. I’ve been talking to this guy who seems rather nice and we have a lot in common. Btw, I met him on POF (plenty of fish.com). Anyways, he seemed alright and we sparked up a conversation. Then I ended up adding him to facebook too. Now that’s where it gets interesting.

Of course I look up everything about this guy and check out all his photos, comments on photos, and even his entire wall (which was a mere three pages). I noticed some comments from other girls calling him a liar, one minute man, etc. Ya the one minute man made me howl. So I ended up deleting him from facebook and blocking him on msn.

The worst thing was, yes please smack me, I gave him my cell number. So he’s been calling me non-stop today. Of course I never answered. Then he goes ahead and sends me a message through POF. I somehow lost the message or clicked delete because I wanted to save it but it went something like this.

Oh I’m sorry for lying to you. I’m not single. I’m actually married and have three kids. I just had a fight with my wife and in turn was looking for someone to get laid.

He goes on to say all the best and sorry again. So I just responded, “Stop calling me and lose my number.” I was like whatever since I smelled a rat anyways plus I didn’t like the fact that he wasn’t stable and was constantly on the move (ie: live with friend, then live with cousin, etc). Then I noticed on his facebook (his profile is public) that he kept switching his relationship status to single, engaged, in a relationship, single, married, etc. It was non-stop. Then he edits his about me section and included that he’s married has three sons…blah blah blah.

Anyways, later on I get this message in POF saying this:

Tina I am so sorry that my piece of sh*thusband keeps calling you and harassing you….

Please just simply block our number
All you need to do is press *60 and add our to the list and he won’t be able to call no more….

I am so sorry for the inconvience
I told him to leave you alone
Everytime I ask him who he is calling he says it is a family member and he is always full of shit…..

So I understand where your coming from
And thanks for leaving my husband alone and understanding that he is a married man and he does have 3 kids to take care of….

He is a major cheater and a man hore and a ***hole
But even though he is though things I love him sometimes I don’t know why but I do……I think it is because he gave me 3 wonderful kids and I don’t want to jeporidize losing my kids cause of him so I put up with him and his bull shit…..

So take care of yourself
And good luck to you
I hope you find someone to love
You seem like a wonderful girl who only deserves the best

Have a good evening tina
And also I deleted and blocked you from his MSN so he won’t bother you on there….

See ya
And have a nice life

Ya I completely rolled my eyes on that one. Then a few seconds later I get another message saying this:

And also you won’t hear from him no more on here I am going to covience him one way or another to delete this account

If I knew how I would delete his account behind his back
So please delete and block my husband from you POF and your msn and block our phone numbers ###-###-#### and ###-###-####….

See ya

Where you see # is where obviously the telephone numbers were. Anyways, by this time I was seriously laughing my head off because it seemed that everytime I logged in, I got a new message.

Then yet again, I receive another message a mere seconds later saying “Hi”. Plus, throughout this whole time he kept adding me as a favourite and then I would delete that. So ya…then I finally blocked him on POF and yippy!! NO MORE MESSAGES!! LOL!

Oh ya, did I mention that now his facebook profile says this:

I am married to a wonderful lady that I love very much… And I have 4 wondeful children….So ladies I am on here looking for friends only nothing more nothing less….This sexy man is not for sale…

See the underlined part? 4 children?? I thought it was 3?? Clearly this guy thinks I’m an idiot or something. The whole time it was him, not his wife, and I doubt he is married or has children. How do I know? Because I also checked out his myspace page too. lmao. It’s good to do your homework. Hahaha.

Thank God I didn’t start a relationship with this creep. Seriously…where are all the good guys???